I've always loved jewelry, but finding pieces that I can wear every day, that are both stylish and durable, has been a journey. I wanted jewelry that felt like me, something that could withstand daily wear and still look great. It's been a process of trial and error, but I've finally found a system that works for building a versatile and affordable collection.
Recently, I decided to invest in a solid gold necklace for daily wear. I was looking for something unique but not too flashy. I loved the idea of a diamond shape, something a bit different from the usual pendants. That got me thinking about my entire jewelry collection and how I could curate a selection of pieces that I truly loved and would wear consistently.
Early on, I realized I needed to figure out what styles suited me best before investing in higher-quality pieces. So, I tried buying those inexpensive packs of minimalist earrings. I learned a lot! For example, I discovered that I don't really like spherical studs. They just don't sit right on my earlobes. Trying out the cheap versions saved me from making costly mistakes later on.
I got so frustrated with my gold-plated rings chipping and losing stones. It was such a waste of money! That's when I started looking for jewelry made with fine metals. I've had good luck with finding affordable jewelry made of real gold. If it's a necklace or something that won't get as much wear, I look for quality gold plating. It's all about finding the right balance between price and durability.
Last year, I decided to really flesh out a basic jewelry wardrobe. It sounds a little silly, but it was actually really rewarding! I focused on getting high-quality daily wear items. I invested in simple studs for my multiple lobe piercings, rings that actually fit well (so important!), and necklaces of different lengths to layer.
I personally love pearls. I have three different sizes of pearl earrings that I usually wear. Sometimes I swap them out for flashier earrings, but that's usually if I'm going to a party or an event. Otherwise, I'd say invest in a nice pair of earrings – whatever style you prefer – that you can wear every day. It makes a big difference.
Over time, I've developed a few key strategies for building my everyday jewelry collection. Here are some of the things that have worked for me:
I've also found that certain pieces can really elevate an outfit. I was browsing the BlingCharming Online Store the other day and saw a really interesting necklace that caught my eye. It's the Crying Face Necklace Reversible Hip Hop Pendant. It's definitely a statement piece, but I think it could be a fun way to add some personality to a simple outfit.

What I like about this necklace is that it's reversible, giving you two different looks in one. It's also a bit edgy and different, which I appreciate. I'm thinking of pairing it with a simple black t-shirt and jeans for a casual but cool look. It's the kind of piece that can spark a conversation and show off your unique style. I really like how BlingCharming offers a variety of styles.
One of the biggest lessons I've learned is the importance of investing in quality materials. It's tempting to buy cheap jewelry, but it rarely lasts. Here's a breakdown of some common materials and their pros and cons: